Tuesday, July 28, 2009

SUPERSTEPMOMMIE

WELL, HERE'S MY EXPERIENCE OF ENTERING THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF BEING A STEPMOTHER. NO...IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT BEING EVIL AND HAVING A WART ON YOUR FACE, IT'S ALL ABOUT BEING AN UNDERSTANDING, CARING PARENT AND ACCEPTING THE CHILD AS YOUR OWN. HONESTLY, FOR ME IT'S BEEN EXTREMELY HARD..I HAVE HAD TO GROW UP COMPLETELY AND BE A PARENT WITHOUT HAVING ANY CHILDREN OF MY OWN, IT'S QUITE A TRANSITION. LUCKY ME WE GET ALONG I HAVE 1 STEP DAUGHTER AND SHE IS NO HASSLE WHATSOEVER. MY OWN NIECE WAS WAY MORE OF A HASSLE AND WE NEVER GOT ALONG SO IT WAS FRUSTRATING. THE THING IS IN MY SITUATION LIKE MANY STEP MOTHERS THE REAL MOTHER DOESN'T QUIT LIKE THE FACT THAT I AM IN HER DAUGHTERS LIFE SO SHE MAKES IT ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE FOR MY HUSBAND TO SEE HER AND THIS IS THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WE HAVE SINCE WE HAVE THOSE RIGHTS BUT YOU KNOW THAT'S THE WAY IT IS. SO I HAVE TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON AND BE REALLY GOOD TO MY STEP DAUGHTER BECAUSE SHE'S A PART OF MY LIFE AND EVERYONE NEEDS TO REALIZE THAT SOMEDAY. SO, I DUNNO MAYBE THIS IS THE WAY IT IS FOR EVERYBODY JUST WANTED TO PUT THAT OUT THERE FOR ALL THE WOMEN WHO HAVE STEP CHILDREN AND NEED APPRECIATION :) THIS WAS MY SHOUT OUT FOR THE DAY SO SHOW LOVE IF YOU ARE A STEPMOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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